Frequently Asked Questions
What is sexual addiction?
Sexual addiction is a compulsive behavior characterized by an inability to control sexual thoughts, feelings, or actions despite negative consequences. Learn more on our page, The Problem.
How do I know if I’m a porn addict?
If you’re unsure, take our free self-assessment. Recognizing the signs can be the first step toward healing.
What is betrayal trauma?
Betrayal trauma refers to the emotional pain experienced when trust is broken in a relationship, particularly from infidelity or sexual addiction. Learn more on our For Partners page.
How do I start my recovery journey?
Recovery begins with a willingness to change leading to rigorous honesty and complete accountability. You have admit that you have a problem and ask for help. That’s the first step. Our mentoring services can guide you through the process.
Can recovery really save my marriage?
Yes, it can, but both partners must be willing to put in the work. While no outcome is guaranteed, recovery often improves communication, rebuilds trust, and creates a foundation for healing in relationships. The hard truth is this: If you’re an addict, without recovery, there is little hope for your relationship.
How long does recovery take?
Recovery is a lifelong journey, but many men see noticeable change in the first year and significant progress within the first 2-5 years when they commit to consistent accountability and intentional work.
How can I support my spouse without enabling their behavior?
Supporting your spouse doesn’t mean tolerating harmful behaviors. Setting boundaries, finding your voice, and seeking your own healing is essential. This is best way to support your addicted spouse. Learn more on our For Partners page.
What can I do to heal from betrayal trauma?
Healing requires a commitment to self-care and meaningful connection with others who understand your experience. Mentorship and therapy are often indispensable resources on this journey. We offer tools and resources to help you find your voice and rebuild your strength.
Should I stay in the marriage or leave?
This deeply personal decision requires prayer, discernment, and often professional guidance. Our mentoring services can support spouses navigating this choice, helping you know your worth and identity in Christ separate from what your husband chooses. No matter what, you will need to take time to heal.
How does mentoring work?
We offer weekly, one-on-one mentoring sessions for individuals and couples focused on sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing. Sessions are held online or in person, last one hour, and are based on a curriculum designed by our professional mentors.
What if my spouse doesn’t want to participate?
Recovery and healing are possible even if your spouse isn’t ready to join. You can still benefit from mentoring to grow and heal individually. Your personal autonomy and wholeness is valid and valuable.
How much do mentoring sessions cost?
We strive to make our services as accessible as possible. Our current monthly retainer for individual mentoring, which includes four sessions per month, is $460.
How do I book a session?
If you’re interested in getting started, or want to learn more, our process begins with a FREE discovery call with a mentor to ensure it’s a good fit and the next right step for you. Your mentor will guide the process from there.