You can
find peace.
Hey sister, I am so sorry you are going through this, but so glad you found your way here.
Take a moment, breath deeply, and count to three.
1.
You are seen, and
you are not alone.
2.
With the right support,
you can find peace and joy again.
3.
God is not finished
with your story.
What is Betrayal Trauma?
“ Have you ever felt lost in a fog, unable to sleep, eat, or focus? Like anything could send you over the edge, as if an anchor was dropping on your belly sending you straight down to the bottom of the ocean unable to move? “ - Laura H.
Betrayal trauma is the profound sense of hurt, confusion, emotional turmoil and psychological distress experienced when the person you are supposed to trust the most deeply violates that trust, damaging the relationship and your sense of safety and security.
Your feelings of distress are valid—it’s normal to experience a wide range of emotional, physical, and cognitive symptoms when dealing with betrayal:
We feel intense and overwhelming feelings of anxiety, persistent sadness, hopelessness, paranoia, being on edge, irritability, and numbness to the world around us.
We repeatedly have intrusive thoughts and vivid flashbacks bringing us back to the painful event(s).
We experience sleep disturbances, stomach issues, headaches, or other physical signs of stress.
We begin to question our own judgement and feel like we can’t trust our instincts, leaving us feeling inadequate, underserving of love and respect.
Ultimately this leads us to a sense of being stuck in a cycle of betrayal, either in our current relationship or from past experiences, resulting in feelings of hopelessness.
Regardless of what others say or believe, if you feel hurt or betrayed, those feelings are real. BUT there is hope. You can be free!
Free from porn.
Free from betrayal.
Free from trigger responses.
Free to live a life renewed.
You deserve to feel safe and secure.
Find peace and move forward in healing today! You don’t have to do this alone.
Betrayal trauma can be complex and deeply painful, and it often comes with myths or lies that can make it harder to understand or address.
Download our free guide to uncover 10 common lies you might be believing—and discover the truth that brings clarity and hope.
LIES vs. TRUTH
How do I know if I am experiencing betrayal trauma?
If you’re here, then you’ve probably asked yourself,
“Am I going crazy?”
Or you’ve said something like this to yourself,
These are common thoughts among those suffering from betrayal trauma. BUT…
You are not crazy. You are not stupid. You are not alone.
God’s Dream for You
I know your heart feels like a “desolate waste” right now, but God promises: "I will bring health and healing to it; I will heal my people and will let them enjoy abundant peace and security."
Even when it seems impossible, He's restoring what was lost. He’s bringing back the joy and peace that feel so far away. All the places you feel deserted and empty, "there will be heard once more the sounds of joy and gladness." Your story and your pain aren't the end—they're the beginning of something new.
God is already working in you, you're not defined as Betrayed but get to take your rightful place as His Beloved. Your brokenness is being transformed, and your life will bring Him “renown, joy, praise and honor”. As the world sees His goodness in your journey, they'll be “in awe and will tremble at the abundant prosperity and peace” He's given you.
What you thought was lost will become a celebration as He replaces your shame and disgrace with peace, joy, and a future filled with more than you ever imagined. God's ultimate dream for you is abundance—filled with new beginnings and restoration filling every part of your life.
Healing is on its way, and you're about to step into a life overflowing with His grace, security, and joy.
Jeremiah 33:6-16
I want that…but how?
We weren’t meant to do life alone.
Need someone to talk to?
Schedule a free, 45-minute call with Laura. No pressure. Simply a safe—judgement free—space to share your story.
I don’t take lightly the courage it takes to reach out for help. I would be honored to listen and help you discern your next step, whether that’s with me or someone else who can best support you.
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