A mentor
for the journey.
"I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten..."
- Joel 2:25-26God has the power to restore everything that has been taken—whether it’s hope, joy, or peace. Even in the midst of hardship, He is renewing and healing, bringing back what was lost or destroyed. His promise of restoration is steadfast, and I trust that He will bring renewal into every area of your life.
I want that but…how?
You’ve read the books, listened to podcasts, maybe even tried counseling or support groups. But still, something feels missing. Betrayal trauma can be incredibly complex, and it can affect you in ways you never expected.
You don’t need more information—you need someone to walk you through it, someone who truly gets it.
I know the way.
I help wives of sexually-addicted men reclaim their God-given voice, break the cycle of betrayal trauma, and live out of abundance as God’s Beloved.
Hi, I’m Laura, a Certified Professional Mentor, and I’ve been exactly where you are today. By God’s grace alone, I stand on the other side of the deep waters of my own betrayal trauma, calling out with all my heart: Don’t lose hope—this is the Way!
I say this with complete confidence: Healing is not just possible—it’s within reach. I know it might feel impossible to see it right now, but trust me, you are going to get through this.
Regardless of your situation—whether you're trying to rebuild your marriage, navigating separation, or moving forward after divorce, your worth isn’t defined by your spouse’s choices. Renewal is possible.
You are Christ’s beloved and you are worthy of a life full of goodness, mercy, and unconditional love.
I remember the desperation of needing someone to reach into the fog and turbulent waters that were consuming me. I am forever grateful that Jesus met me there, extending His hand and placing the right people in my life who knew the Way.
I would truly be honored to walk alongside you as you heal from the deep pain of betrayal and rediscover peace, joy, and a renewed sense of self. Your healing isn’t just necessary—it’s God’s deepest longing for you.
Do you need a guide?
Healing takes time. It requires patience, self-compassion, and often professional guidance to navigate the emotional complexities and begin to build a new, even better life than before.
It’s not just about "forgiving and forgetting"—it’s about establishing safety, processing the pain, reclaiming your voice, setting boundaries, and finding healthy ways to rebuild trust again—trust in yourself, in others, and in God.
I get it—not just because I’ve studied it, but because I’ve lived through it. The heartbreak, the confusion, the fear that you might never feel whole again—it’s real. But so is the possibility of recovery. I’ve learned how to navigate this journey, and I can help you avoid the common pitfalls and the additional pain that many experience when they try to go it alone.
You are not responsible for someone else’s betrayal, whether it’s infidelity, pornography, or any breach of trust. Their actions are not your fault. Recognizing your worth and protecting your emotional well-being is key to healing.
I can say what others can’t. Often, family members don’t understand, well-meaning pastors may lack the insight, and many care providers are bound by limitations in what they can offer. But as your mentor, I’m here to be real with you. I’m not going to lecture or offer shallow solutions. I’ll give it to you straight—no filters, no empty platitudes—just authentic, hard-earned wisdom about what actually works in healing.
This is not a “quick fix" kind of deal. I’m not here to check in once a week and hope things magically get better. I’m here for the entire journey—the highs, the lows, and every moment in between. I’ll push you when it’s time to grow, cheer you on through your progress, and help you keep moving forward—no matter how slow or messy it feels. Every step counts, and you’re capable of more than you realize.
I am deeply passionate about using everything I’ve learned from navigating the devastation and life-altering impact of my husband’s porn addiction to help guide others through their own heartache.
Now, it is my privilege to journey alongside you—with Jesus leading the way—through every twist, turn, and storm until you, too, reach the other side. My hope is to guide you from pain and brokenness into healing, restoration, and the abundant life God has for you. No matter what your husband chooses.
1:1 Mentoring with Laura
Key Features
Weekly 1:1 mentoring sessions w/ Laura
Private text & voice message support between sessions
Live via phone or video w/ flexible scheduling
Access to proven recovery tools and resources
Accessible from anywhere in the world
Guidance at every step along the way
Time Commitment
Four 80-minute sessions per month
Month-to-month commitment
Recommend 3 months to start; 1 year+ for best results*
*While this is a month-to-moth commitment, it takes time to establish a connection and build trust— I encourage new mentees to commit to at least three months to give the process a real chance. After that, we can check in and see if it’s the right fit to continue.
The average time to recover from betrayal trauma (such as infidelity, deception, or emotional betrayal) varies widely, but research and personal accounts suggest that it often takes 18 months to 5 years to fully heal after the last discovery—meaning once there are no new lies, betrayals, or hidden truths emerging. With that in mind, while there’s no required time commitment I recommend at least one year of focused mentorship to receive the most benefit.
Healing takes an annoyingly long amount of time (at least that is what I often thought…I wanted to feel and be better yesterday!). I know you may be thinking “it’s unfair”! I agree and have said those words many times, however, it is important to be realistic about the care you need and offer a lot of grace towards yourself along the way. This is not an easy or quick process, but it’s absolutely worth it.
The first year of recovery from sex addiction is crucial and sets the stage for lasting success. Similarly, the initial year of focused help for betrayal can significantly alter the trajectory of your life.
Mentoring for recovery and healing is for those tired of the chaos and ready to commit to the hard but transformative daily work. Healing is not always linear—it’s normal to have ups and downs. Mentoring, mindfulness tools, self-care, and a strong support system can help speed up recovery.
The key is to have someone who knows the way through to help guide you. That’s where I come in!
Just as recovery is always his choice, taking the BRAVE step towards healing is yours.
Topics & Themes
We’ll use resources from the premier thought leaders in betrayal trauma healing and a few helpful tools I’ve developed, all in alignment with what Scripture says about human sexuality and marriage.
Every resource I require or recommend helped transform my life and is meant to offer you new perspectives, challenge the stories you are believing about yourself and others, and prompt you to take meaningful action.
If you are willing to partner with God, trust the wisdom of those who have gone before you, and do the brave work…you will find peace and joy again.
Typical Session
Grounding & Check-In
Start with prayer and an honest look at your week—victories, setbacks, and where you need support.
Processing & Insight
Reflect on the selected readings, audio, or assignments, unpacking what’s hitting home and what’s challenging you.
Commitment & Next Steps
Identify key takeaways and set intentional action steps to keep building real momentum in recovery.
Healing from betrayal trauma isn’t about rushing—it’s about moving forward with intention, self-compassion, and resilience.
A mentorship approach provides guidance, accountability, and the emotional space needed to navigate each stage.
Am I the right fit?
I know how scary it is to reach out for help. And finding the right help? That can feel overwhelming. You’re desperate to be seen and understood, but the weight of it all makes even that feel impossible. I see you. I want to wrap you in a big hug and remind you: You won’t feel like this forever.
Finding the courage and strength to take that next step will be one of the greatest gifts you ever give yourself. And it’s worth taking the time to find the support that truly resonates with you. You didn’t choose to be betrayed, but choosing the right help—that’s completely in your hands, and it’s one of the most powerful choices you can make.
When my world was crumbling all around me, I desperately searched for hope—for stories of survival and renewal, for anything I could relate to and hold onto. I was looking for light. If you would like to learn more about my journey, you can read my story here.
If you’re ready to do the brave work of reclaiming your life, my mentoring process is here to support you. Or maybe you just need a safe space to share your story—I’d be honored to listen and help you figure out your next step, whether that’s with me or someone else who can best support you.
Simple Steps to Get Started
1. Schedule a free call with me to discover more about the healing journey.
The call will take about 45 minutes. Phone or video is available.
2. We’ll share our stories, discuss the recovery mentoring process, and answer your questions.
All about getting to know me, no pressure to make a commitment.
3. Take some time to discern if mentoring is right for you. I’ll check-in after three days.
Pray. Discuss with your people. Make the best decision for you.
Schedule a free, 45-minute call with Laura. No pressure. Simply a safe—judgement free—space to share your story.
I don’t take lightly the courage it takes to reach out for help. I would be honored to listen and help you discern your next step, whether that’s with me or someone else who can best support you.
Ready to reclaim your life?
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